Deciding to have plastic surgery affects your relationships. Here's guidance on discussing your plans with partners and family.

Before Telling Anyone

Be Clear About Your Motivation

• Why do you want this?
• Is this for yourself?
• Are you seeking approval?
• Have you researched thoroughly?

Telling Your Partner

Approach

• Choose calm, private setting
• Be honest about your feelings
• Explain your reasoning
• Share your research
• Address their concerns

Common Partner Concerns

• Cost implications
• Safety worries
• Concern about changes
• Feeling left out of decision
• "I love you as you are"

Helpful Responses

• "This is something I've wanted for a long time"
• "I've researched this thoroughly"
• "I'd love your support"
• "Let me share the information I've gathered"

Telling Family

Parents

• May worry about safety
• Cultural differences in acceptance
• Generational perspectives
• May need time to process

Siblings/Extended Family

• Decide how much to share
• Not everyone needs to know
• Prepare for various reactions

Handling Negative Reactions

• Stay calm and confident
• Remember this is your decision
• Provide information, not justification
• Give them time to adjust
• Set boundaries if needed

Choosing Not to Tell

• This is valid option
• Your body, your choice
• Consider practical aspects (recovery help)
• Have cover story if needed

Including Partner in Process

• Invite to consultations
• Share research
• Consider their travel
• Value their support role